How does one succeed in life?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

How would you advertise if you wanted to be a "tour guide" who can take you through the dark web while warning you what not to look at and not to click on?

Making more friends is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Why do liberals and Democrats think it’s “ironic” for Donald Trump to say “We have to get back to law and order”?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What are the reasons behind Europeans preferring to visit third world countries over taking holidays in their own continent?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Is there anything you did that you regret? If so, what is it, and why?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Is it possible for doctors to diagnose prostate cancer just by looking at a patient?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Who are your 5 or so favorite Quora people?

That's it for today.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Why do I sweat a great deal while exercising the same on some days and not so much on others?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Why do women stubbornly refuse to let men lead, even though they are attracted to the man, and the man both loves and desires them? Why do they get angry and blame the man when he gets fed up and walks away, when it's entirely their own fault?

Ask yourself:

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What are the coolest new smart home gadgets to upgrade your living space?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Why do men love to stink/being smelly?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What do you think about a sister's love?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What I need from you?

Why am I attracted to older men?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Where and how did ballet originate?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Does not procrastinate.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Can supporters of gun control explain the purpose behind a gun registry?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What great song was "ruined" once you really listened to the lyrics?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?